positivity!!!

I feel a lot of negative aura surrounding me recently and now. So this entry (click To a better life) wrote or maybe re-wrote by Wawa is such a good article to be read. I'm not starting yet but relieve a little bit.

Here are some points I think I should working on to be a better me..


Stop spending time with the wrong people 
It’s not the people that stand by your side when you’re at your best, but the ones who stand beside you when you’re at your worst that are your true friends

Stop putting your own needs on the back burner
Yes, help others; but help yourself too

Stop trying to be someone you’re not
Emm.. Be yourself and the right people will love the real you. Be who you are and say what you feel, because those who mind don't matter, and those who matter don't mind. I am who I am. I’m weird, I’m lame, I run into things, I spill food, I trip, I scream about random & stupid stuff. But, I like it that way. 

Stop trying to hold onto the past
People say that bad memories cause the most pain, but actually sometimes it’s the good ones that drive you insane. There comes a time when you have to choose between turning the page or closing the damn book. Remember the past, plan for the future, but live for today, because yesterday is gone and tomorrow may never come.

Stop berating yourself for old mistakes
We all make mistakes and have struggles but you are not your mistakes and you are not your struggles. But second chance is worthless if you didn’t learn from your mistake the first time. 

Stop holding grudges
Forgiveness is not just for other people, it’s for you too. The first to apologize is the bravest. The first to forgive is the strongest. The first to forget is the happiest. Yeahh. Let apply it!!

Stop exclusively looking to others for happiness
All I want is someone who holds my hand whenever I'm feeling down and make it all okay again.

Stop letting others bring you down to their level
Don't lower your standards to accommodate those who refuse to raise theirs. Don't get upset when someone starts putting you down. They're only doing it because they're unhappy with themselves. Yeahh.. they will and always look for reasons to bring you down. But when you remain standing, that's what shows your true strength. Yeahhh, dont try me ok!

Stop acting like everything is fine if it isn’t
It’s okay to fall apart for a little while. You don’t always have to pretend to be strong, and there is no need to constantly prove that everything is going well. You shouldn’t be concerned with what other people are thinking either – cry if you need to – it’s healthy to shed your tears. The sooner you do, the sooner you will be able to smile again. 

Stop trying to be everything to everyone
Doing so is impossible, and trying will only burn you out. But making one person smile CAN change the world. Maybe not the whole world, but their world. So narrow your focus.


Have some more, go read it! I'm try to improve my low points even I know it maybe hard :)

Think positivity :) !

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