belajar mengucap alhamdulillah meskipun hati diluka berdarah, kaki tertusuk duri, sabarlah meskipun hati disakiti. ucaplah " Allahumma Inni A'uzubika Minal Hammil Wal Hazan" ketika sedih.. Sesungguhnya Allah itu memahami, walau sejauh mana kita pendam di lubuk hati, Dia tahu. kita manusia, lemah tanpa Allah. macam2 ujian, klu xingat Allah, mcm mane nak cari kekuatan, nak cari ketenangan, carilah Allah (': no matter how deep you hurt, remember this, "dont beg for anyone to stay in your life, if they want be a part of your life, they'll stay". be strong no matter how hard thngs may seen, dont ever think to repay, dont ever build grudge. karma? no in islam we have kifarah. what u give, you'll get it back either it is in good way or vice versa. Allah is fair you know? jangan membalas keburukan dengan keburukan:) bersabar itu lebih baik. in shaa Allah. semua perkara boleh berubah, termasuk hati manusia. sesungguhnya tiada yg mustahil bagi Allah...